In Us We Trust; Small Business Spotlight - Melissa Grewar

By Tricia Scott.

Melissa Grewar is the straight-talking, Greek mythology-obsessed founder of In Us We Trust CIC and the author of the book by the same name — a bold, beautiful reminder that your power isn’t somewhere “out there.” It’s already in you. It always has been. It’s just time to wake it up.

Known for her grounded, no-nonsense approach to spirituality, Melissa calls herself The Spiritual Engineer — a title that perfectly captures her knack for turning deep, intuitive work into practical, life-changing tools. Her work fuses self-trust, inner awareness, and business sense, creating a bridge between the world we can see and the one that quietly shapes everything we do.

Through In Us We Trust, Melissa guides people who are done with second-guessing themselves and ready to rebuild their confidence from the inside out. Her book, meditations, and moon-manifesting practices don’t promise overnight transformation — they offer something better: a return to truth, clarity, and your own inner authority.

Whether she’s speaking, writing, or working one-to-one, Melissa has a rare ability to cut through noise and self-doubt with honesty, humour, and heart. For those who’ve spent years playing small or trying to fit a version of success that never felt quite right, her message lands like a wake-up call and a warm hand all at once: “Your power lives inside you already. It’s time to trust it — and lead from there.” 

We caught up with Melissa over vegan lattes as she plans her In Us We Trust 2026 in-person events to talk about all things self-trust, inner power, and the courage it takes to lead from within.

What ignited the decision to write In Us We Trust — and how did you navigate the leap from thought to published author?

Honestly, it happened completely by accident. For about a year, during my psychic mediumship practice, several people mentioned that I’d be writing a book. I laughed it off every time. I love reading, but never saw myself as a wordsmith.

Then one day, I was sitting with John Mills, an amazing Creative Director, and he introduced me to ChatGPT. We started playing around with it, putting in all my notes, experiences, and insights. Within a few hours, it began to take shape, a 12-month course based on everything I’d lived and learned. After a few days, I realised this was the book people had been talking about all along.

It took me six months to write, and it wasn’t easy. I spent long days and very late nights writing in the dark, hands wrapped around a candle to keep warm. Money was tight, and I was living purely on donations to get through. I even skipped Christmas because I’d promised myself the book would be ready for publishing by February. It was tough, but I knew I was being guided to finish it. It felt like I was writing something that was never just mine; it was for everyone who’d ever forgotten their own strength.

Did you self-publish? What surprised you about that process?

Yes, I did. I originally published In Us We Trust as a paperback, but it became an absolute nightmare trying to create a digital format. In the end, I decided to pause and trust that it simply wasn’t the right time.

During that period, I spoke to several people in my business community for advice. I learned that many publishers now favour a very short, to-the-point style of writing, the “Hemingway” approach, because of shorter attention spans. But my book wasn’t meant to fit into a formula. It needed to breathe, just like me. I was never meant to fit into one either. I was meant to create one.

I was lucky to have some incredible people around me who believed in what I was creating. Ann English from Create Intrigue, who recently appeared on the cover of The Female CEO, magically brought Luci, my Spirit Guide (Peter Sellers), to life by transforming his hand-drawn image from paper to digital. Then Donna Emery, The Digital Doctor, spent an entire month painstakingly designing the content layout and cover. They both poured so much care into bringing my vision to life, and I’m really grateful for their expertise.

It wasn’t an easy process; there were plenty of challenges, especially financial ones. Like many creatives, I couldn’t do everything myself and wasn’t in a position to pay for help. But every time I hit a wall, something, or someone, appeared. I’ve learned that when you stay open and trust the timing, the right support always finds you.

When I finally revisited the digital version, everything flowed. Within a few days, it was live on Amazon. Interestingly, when I first tried to upload the paperback edit, technical issues prevented it from going through. At the time, it felt frustrating, but that delay worked in my favour. There had been a $49 upload fee, and by the time it finally went through, the fee had been removed. It was a small but powerful reminder that even setbacks have a purpose; you just need to trust your feelings and let things unfold as they’re meant to.

I later decided to retract the paperback after feedback that people didn’t like the idea of writing their thoughts and feelings directly in the book. That was actually the point: the act of writing is healing. Our hands carry energy; just as rubbing your head eases a headache, writing helps release what’s held inside. As the saying goes, the pen is mightier than the sword, and I truly stand by that. Regardless of where you end up writing, in a notebook, on a napkin, or even on toilet paper, it’s your story you’re releasing.

Your work centres around intuitive insight, self-trust, and inner wisdom. How did you find your unique author-voice when writing, and how do you stay true to it in a crowded marketplace?

In Us We Trust was born out of lack, the kind that forces you to face yourself. I’ve always seen it as a deep, dark well that forever needs filling. It’s not a book filled with the highlights of life; it’s a space to pour out the parts we hide, the doubts, fears, and the weight that keeps us from stepping into the light.

Everything I’ve learned, unlearned, understood, and been spiritually guided to express is in this book. It’s alive, it feeds on what needs to be released. There was a point near the end of writing when I’d pushed myself so far, helping others while neglecting my own self-care, that I almost gave up completely. When I reached the chapter on Love, it broke me open. That’s when I realised this book wasn’t just a piece of writing; it was a living thing. It drew out every trace of my own pain so others could release theirs safely through its pages.

I’ve heard other authors say they feel relief or pride when they finish a book. When I finished mine, I hated it. I know that sounds dramatic, but I’d poured everything I had into it, all the raw truth, pain, and transformation. It wasn’t meant to be pretty. It was meant to be real.

This book became an emotional vessel, a place for others to offload everything they’ve carried for too long. It’s a starting point, a last resort, and a mirror to show them what they already know to be true: that self-trust and empowerment come from within.

Through that process, I found my voice, not by chasing what sells, but by writing what heals.

That’s how I stay true in a crowded marketplace: I don’t compete with the magical or spiritual noise. I write from silence, from the space where truth of feeling actually speaks.

One of the commitments of your book is to help readers transform fear, doubt, and old hurts into actionable growth. Could you share a personal moment when you turned a limiting belief into a launchpad — both in your writing and in your business?

I’ve always been stubborn; it’s a natural trait amongst the women in my family. It’s rarely been a question of if I can do something; it’s always been about how.

A lot of people see AI as a threat or as “cheating,” but I saw it as a tool, just like a pen, a brush, or a hammer. Creatives and thinkers need tools to bring ideas to life, and for me, ChatGPT helped organise my thoughts into something coherent and clear. I had a difficult time in school, moving from one school to another, so my education was limited. I’d also been spiritually guided to avoid expressing what was in my head. AI became that bridge between the chaos of intuitive thought and the clarity of language. It’s helped me say on paper exactly what I meant, fluently and simply.

That same stubbornness has carried me through business, too. I’ve spent years networking, attending workshops, and learning what works, and, maybe more importantly, what doesn’t. Over time, I’ve learned to come from a place of authenticity and integrity, rather than trying to follow what’s “in” or fit into someone else’s version of success.

I’ve noticed many entrepreneurs, especially women, feel they have to fight their way to the top, playing the same ego-driven game just to be seen or taken seriously. But you don’t. You might start out quietly, testing things that work for others and finding they don’t fit you. It’s not a waste of time; it’s building your confidence in what you know is right for you. You’re meant to do it your own way, intuitively, not imitatively.

I learned that the hard way many times in various scenarios. I’d been a finalist, very last minute, for a Women in Business award. Everything looked so polished, the video, the interview, me sitting at my laptop (which was funny, really, because that’s not how I work). I demonstrated Reiki on one of the videographers and spoke about what I did and what I hoped to create. But on the night, when the video played, I was made to look like a small business with no real vision. I was furious. Not because I didn’t win, but because it was the first time I truly saw how business works: I was a requirement to fit a need, and overall, if you don’t fit the mould, you’re out.

It stung at first, but it also clarified something important; that moment lit a fire in me. I realised I didn’t want to fit their version of success. I wanted to fulfil my own, a theatre and community hub, not just for entertainment, but for connection, creativity, and services that support real lives. That’s when I hit the “how” again. I felt like a frog trying to leap my way into the future, but at least I knew what I needed to leave behind, and which direction I was jumping. I was no longer just a Psychic Medium and Reiki Master. I was becoming The Spiritual Engineer.

Many female entrepreneurs feel isolated, overwhelmed, or unsure. How do you hope In Us We Trust serves those women — and if you could speak directly to a woman reading this, what would be the one message you’d want her to hear?

In Us We Trust was created to help remove the emotional weight of negativity and make space for intuitive creativity to grow. For women, this means rediscovering the parts of themselves that others tried to shun, dim, or isolate.

I’ve found that those who try to suppress your light often recognise your potential, and instead of rising with you, they prefer to watch your glow fade. But it’s always a matter of choice. The real question isn’t “what if?” There isn’t one. You either trust your feelings, or you don’t; either way, you’ll find out. You’ll either learn (and yes, sometimes keep learning), or you’ll recognise that you did what you felt was right and feel gratitude for it. The more you learn to trust, the more success you’ll attract, even if it is just the next step towards greatness.

Through this, I’ve learned never to chase, but to attract what’s meant for me. If something doesn’t feel right, don’t force it. You’re not for everyone, and that’s okay. You’re here for the ones who do get you. They’ll want to consume what you create (in the best possible way!) because it helps them evolve too.

Being unique isn’t about standing out, though you naturally will; it’s about standing firm in who you are. Open to consideration, yes, but always doing it your way, and claiming the cherry on top as yours (and sharing it with your cheerleaders, of course).

I’ve learned from Athena, Goddess of Wisdom, War, and Strategy, that if we’re open to ideas and honest about what we truly want to achieve, the ‘’how’’ will naturally appear with each step we take toward it. You just have to believe the idea came to you for a reason, and that’s because deep down, you already said you could do it.

Your social enterprise offers meditations, moon-manifesting, and intuitive tools alongside the book. How do you integrate the spiritual/intuitive and the practical/business-side in your life — and why is that blend especially important for the women we support at The Female CEO?

For me, there’s no separation between the spiritual and the practical; they’re two sides of the same coin that work well when in alignment. The intuitive gives direction, and the practical builds the bridge to get there. You need both.

I use my intuitive practices, regular meditation, journaling, and especially letter writing, as tools to stay emotionally and mentally balanced. Manifesting with the moon’s energy is like a checkpoint; it helps me see how far I’ve come, release what no longer serves me, and make space for new opportunities. These practices keep me aligned with what feels right, not just what looks right on paper.

The engineering part comes in when I turn those insights into real steps, structure, and strategy. That’s where balance lives: recognising through awareness and honouring it with action.

I feel this balance is especially important for women, because we’ve been conditioned to downplay our intuition and overprove our logic. But when you learn to trust both, you stop chasing someone else’s version of success and start creating your own.

That’s what In Us We Trust is really about, building from the inside out, not the outside in. It’s the evolution of emotional intuition. As Glinda the Good once said, “You’ve always had the power, my dear, you just had to find it for yourself.” That line captures what’s happening collectively. Through acting, books, music, and art, we’ve been shown this truth again and again, but we often dismiss it as mere entertainment. But they were lessons all along, part of a much bigger shift in awareness, a kind of quiet global awakening that we seem to be finally catching on to.

As both author and founder, what’s a day in your life like? What rituals or practices keep you grounded, especially when you’re balancing the creative, the entrepreneurial, and the intuitive?

No two days are ever quite the same, but I always start my day with stillness until around 11 a.m. I’m not a morning person at all. I’m often awake at random hours with spiritual messages I need to write down immediately (the biggest lie I tell myself is, “I’ll remember it in the morning!”). Sometimes it’s simply sending Reiki healing to someone I’ll never meet.

I begin with a short meditation and listen for what needs my attention that day. Breakfast has become its own ritual, a healthy meal that helps me feel grounded, creative, and empowered. During that quiet time, I tune in emotionally first, then practically build the plan around it. It’s something that protects my emotional and mental balance.

If I’m writing, I let intuition lead, I don’t force words; I follow where they flow. When I’m working on a business idea, I bring the same awareness into structure: what feels aligned, what doesn’t, and what can wait. I try to make space for breaks, time outdoors, housework, or just silence; that’s usually when the clearest ideas arrive. I’m not a procrastinator; I might swear and curse through something I don’t want to do, but I’d rather deal with short-term stress than let it grow into something that blocks long-term happiness.

I don’t live by the clock or the calendar, which feels strange in today’s 24/7 world, but somehow, it works. I don’t watch TV, drink, or smoke. I’m vegan and rarely eat junk now. I spend my time feeding my imagination: reading Greek mythology, writing, or listening to music. My taste is very eclectic; I can go from gentle classical to 80s rock depending on the energetic mood I’m in. For me, it’s all about finding a balance that fits my needs, not what society tells me I should do. When I honour myself, everything else naturally falls into place. 

Looking ahead, what are you most excited about in your journey as a writer and business leader? What’s the next step for In Us We Trust — and how do you hope that evolves into even greater impact for women?

Looking ahead, I’m really excited about bringing In Us We Trust to life in new ways. To get off to a flying start, I’ve decided it’s finally time to put my voice on a different platform, one I’d unknowingly been afraid of for years: the stage.

When I was 14, I took part in a local ballet school production of Dick Whittington. I forgot my lines one night and improvised the next, only to be told off so badly that I left the school six weeks before the next show a year later. I realise now that I wasn’t silenced because I failed; I was silenced because it simply wasn’t my time to speak yet. Now it is.

With my book already out in the world, I’ve now taken a full-circle turn to re-create it into a 12-month programme, The Inner Map. It’s designed to help others navigate their emotional landscape and reconnect with their intuitive power. It’s not just about self-development; it’s about self-leadership, giving women the tools to trust their own process and move from confusion to clarity, one step at a time.

This evolution will naturally lead into my 11-year-old vision: The Muses, an entertainment, educational community theatre and hub that will bring creativity, healing, and opportunity together under one roof. It’s a space where people can feel genuinely supported, not fobbed off with a number to call. There, they can learn, share, and rebuild. It’s where self-expression meets social change. I see The Muses Theatre as the physical heartbeat of what In Us We Trust stands for: transformation through connection.

What excites me most is the ripple effect of this work. When one unique individual realises their worth, they naturally uplift others. I was once told that I’m a catalyst for global change, and I believe that now. I want In Us We Trust to become the tool that helps me be that catalyst, leaving behind a legacy that empowers unique individuals everywhere to remember that their voice, their vision, and their vulnerability aren’t weaknesses but their greatest strengths. Not to influence others, but to inspire them. We didn’t go through hell just to survive it. It was to make sure no one else has to feel unseen or unheard again.

To find out more visit In Us We Trust on Amazon or learn more with Meditations and Moonmanifesting