DON'T BE SO BUSY MOPPING THE FLOOR YOU FORGET TO TURN OFF THE TAP
It's so often the way that we get so busy in the 'doing' that we forget to address the source and the source is always you. Things going a bit wobbly? Look inward. Its no bloody use mopping yourself into a frenzy and still pouring out the same old story.
Stop, look at it objectively. What would you tell your best friend to do if it were her? (I really love this tool, it works every time). Address your core needs and desires and everything else either fall into place or simply fall away.